Thanks everyone. I did good. I did not say a word to him that I knew he was out with her or that she is playing games with me or act mad or anything. (I hope this is beating her at her own game... I asked him how she was actually).
Next time I think I will tell him to tell her I hope she is doing ok or do you think it would be too much to send her a text message telling her I hope she is doing ok? (I think this would make her blood boil because she knows I don't like her and she couldn't tell H I was being mean cause it would be nice.) What do you guys think?
I have been doing a lot of DBing. Some of it backfired on me, though. I was trying to boost his ego and it had something to do with his job. Touchy subject I guess... i was trying to compliment him and he snapped at me, but I think i recovered ok. I think he took what I was saying the wrong way because he actually he twisted my words and I said, I did not say that and I told him I am complimenting him. Whew!
I just wish I did not have to feel like I am going to turn my back and he is going to stab it. I read something on someone elses post and they said something like you will get back what you give... I hope so.
New week, here we go... I hope it's a good one.
cissy
Maybe I can boost his ego some other way. He wants me to tell my boss off at work for him just like the OW does. He loves when she does that. I am not going to do that, but I let him think I was going to. The OW can't be giving herself a good name by sticing up for my H that way, I don't think.
