It's time to pull out of the rut

[IWB]

Brue,

Finally reading again, and I am glad since you have posted so much incite in the past week.

I thought of how God loves us when I read your post, and the hurt and disappointment he must feel when our free will gets us in trouble.

I think I love my wife unconditionally, and it hurts that she does not feel the some way about me. You are right, it is her life and not mine (not something I really thought about before...thanks for the perspective). However, her life has affected mine because of our relationship/marriage, or her decisions in her life have affected our relationship/marriage. They are intertwined. It is how we decide to detach, or hang on that depends on how we are hurt.