hello friends, I am still checking back here from time to time, but the methods didn't help my sitch at all. I was officially divorced end of January (fast huh?)
For those unfamiliar, my W of 18 years began having an affair with a lesbian coworker of Mine. We have two kids, s17 and d16. Wife moved in with Gf end of July, first of August.
Today I heard they are engaged. My kids are unsure what to think, they both love their mother, but hate the OW she is with. The OW is possessive and controlling and has slowly eroded all of the past life, friends, family, loved ones, that my W was so happy with.
I detached. I let go. I am still in my house, which we almost lost, have the kids full time (joint custody, old enough to choose, but they won't stay over there with them, ever.)
Still trying to put the pieces back together.... one day at a time...
Rockinnm, so good to hear from you again. I'm glad you were able to keep your home, it's one less loss for you and the kids. I guess what we all need to keep in mind is that our W's are going to make dumb choices and will pay for those choices. It's sad though that everyone else has to pay a price in pain too. Hey, congrats on W's engagement, are you gonna send a wedding gift, like a box of condoms? Oh right, no need (LOL). Sad, sad, sad indeed. Hang in Rock, despite it all, you sound good!
