You said that it is hard to work on things without W cooperation. This is not true. You can change the dynamic of your R by changing yourself only. That's the only thing you have control over. This has worked for me. I saw an immediate improvement in my H behavior when I started to implement DB. Please read DR, if you haven't already.
I would start my acting "as if". How would you behave if you knew everything was going to turn out fine? Create a positive environment around you.
Absolutely no R talks.
Christine
JJ
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