Question for today.... For the past 9 years I have made an Easter basket for my XH. With Easter approaching I am curious as to what I should do. Obviously given the recent decision on his part to have no communication with me the actually basket is a no. But what about a simple e-mail or text message wishing me a happy easter and enjoyable time with his family. Is that still pushing? Or is that okay? It is what I would normally do for any friend. My heart says it is the right thing to do, but I know it will creep him out a little. But almost anytime I am kind to him it creeps him out he expects me to hate him and want nothing to do with him. SOrry buddy I don't walk away that easily.
If he e-mails or texts me is it alright to respond?