May I suggest praying Hosea 2? And also, another good book with regard to praying for your husband is, "The Power of a Praying Wife" by Stormie Omartian. She also has a small prayer book with this same title which you can find at Barnes and Noble.

Prayer does work which I think many here will tell you, including myself.

I know it is hard, but we have to forgive OW and husband. These people are not in their right minds, remember that. Christian or not, we all have done something in our lives that we are ashamed about and that is why we can ask for forgiveness and Christ will forgive us if we ask.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19