Originally Posted By: momof2girls
I was at the mall with my daughters today and got a call on my cell. It was a sheriff telling me he had my "ticket to freedom"

He was at my house and I wan't there so he told me he would come to the mall...
I was served in front of my daughters and I am totally humiliated.
Called H and basically told him he is a piece of sh&t!! In my state the plantiff is notified before the defendant gets served...H had promised me he would tell me when papers were coming.
Worse yet...the preliminary agreement that H wants is...
the house
my van
me to pay his court/attorney fees
keep him on health ins.
can't sell anything or damage anything in the house...does he really think I would do that!!!WTF
My L is on vacation until Tues....I am sick over this...I guess I didn't feel like it would ever come to this....it has only been 3 months since we seperated!
HELP


I know this won't make you feel any better........but here goes. My wife had me served about 6-7 weeks after our seperation, using info she obtained by breaching my trust. I had asked her to watch OUR pets and OUR house while I was on a business trip. She used that time to find out my flight times, get a picture of me to her Lawyer and Server, and had me served in front of my friends/business colleagues at the airport. See?? Scummy behaviour comes in both sexes...and make NO MISTAKE, the way they proceeded was SCUMMY. I've told my ex as much. She had the nerve to say "thanks, that really makes me feel good" As if I SHOULD be apologetic?? Scummy is as scummy does.