Thanks Lou. I think the USB/thumb flash drive is the method that H was talking about that I couldn't remember. That sounds like the best option for me.

Even though H's method is simple, I do think that I'd feel better if he handled the backup to his server himself. I'm so sensitive about it now that I want no part of it. Anything to avoid feeling inadequate and stupid. No, on a conscious level I don't consider myself to be stupid, but it really tests my confidence to be married to someone who is so sure of himself intellectually. I doubt myself all the time.