Sorry that you are here. First off, read the MLC resources again. Next, try to think how you might be enabling this behavior. Not trying to be mean but to have you think about what is happening here.
OW are almost always hidden... I think that mine has a skank hidden right now. Here is the thing, it seems that you H is comfortable in both worlds... check out Rollercoasterrider's threads as well as reading what Snodderly has up...
Do a search to see if yours is cakeeating and think of some 180s that you can do to ease your own pain, think about what works for you because you cannot change him but you can change how you deal with him.
