Yesterday my D calls me and asks will I take her and her friend to Dave & Busters? It was my exW weekend but she doesn't like that place so she said it was fine if I took the girls. We went and had a good time, my D was getting hungry so I said call mommy and see if she wants to go to Applebees when we get back. My D called and said mommy wants to know what time, I said tell I need about an hour after drop her off because I need to feed and let my dog out. I get a call about on my way back from the exW asking me to please stop in and take a look at her computer. She think she had as a virus and she never renewed her virus scan when it expired 6 months ago.
I fool around with her computer for about a 1/2 hour and it was really messed up. I told her I needed to do this later as I have to go let my dog out, she said fine maybe you can do it after dinner. Long story short I ended up spending until 10pm at her house trying to get the bugs worked out of the computer.
She sat next to me the whole time, we talked, laughed and I even rubbed her lower back a little until she told me to stop because my D was in the next room.
This is the most quality time I spent with my family in several years. This is the most time I have spent with my exW alone too. Starting with Thursday, getting my teeth cleaned and then lunch, that was 2 hours. The C appt and dinner Friday was about 4 hours. And about 5 hours yesterday.
It just reassures me how much I miss my family and my exW. I am hoping this time we spent together helps her see how great of a family we can be again.
I have noticed her giving me very compliments a little more. She sent me a text Friday nite thanking me for dinner and how it was a nice time. I alway knew how to pick good places to eat.
This MLC stuff is crazy, two years ago she would have said she never has good time with me and the food sucked.
My D is off school tommorrow so she will sleep at my house tonight. I asked my exW if she wanted to cuddle in front of the fireplace after she went to bed. She was a little concerned about how well my D sleeps at my house, she doesn't want her to wake up and find us together. So we are playing that by ear, at least she didn't say I don't want to spend time with you!
