OF, I always appreciate your advice and response. Please don't take my response as an act of frustration towards you it was towards the situation I'm in. I've been going through this for almost a year. I've done a lot of DB'ing and sure back sliding too.
This morning she asked me to join her and D to the play class she signed D up for. I went and we all had a good time, she made some jokes and so did I. She told me how D got a hold of her bra and tried to put it on. She said D hasn't gone bathroom in two days so she's kinda crabby, then she jokingly said "like you" and started laughing.
After the class she said "are you leaving or do you want to go have lunch, it's almost lunch time". So we went and had lunch and we talked about work and D etc.
I'm just confused why she keeps stringing me along while also divorcing me. I don't know what to expect and how to act. I've tried the Alaska approach i.e. don't offer help, be cordial but not overly nice or friendly...she played that game back with me the same way. I've tried the friendly approach like today and she plays that back with me the same way. So what's appropriate? what's right and what's wrong?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again