And because this is my thread and I can:::: Journaling:

One year ago today we returned from spring break, spouse went to take D to grammas and spouse called me to say: "I'm not coming home tonight". I still remember how horrid that feeling was and thinking to myself: "are you having an affair"? But it seemed so absurd I didn't voice it.

So where are we now? Gee, D will be 8 next month and spouse continues to affirm that she is unable to make up her mind. Gee, I feel sorry for her don't you? The only good thing is daughter will be that much older if we split. Still rips my heart out for her though. I still refuse to be the "bad guy" for a weak person who will not make their own decisions. The day will come but it ain't here yet.

I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it.
Stubby