I can't thank all of you enough for your words of encouragement! Snodderly you gave me some great advice that I will surely bring to my L...H is a royal lunatic!! I am going to try my best to have no contact with him whatsoever!...I am sure after I laid into him yesterday that he will not be calling for awhile! Had party today for D5 and BIL/SIL came...they even think he is nuts!! I agree having me served at the mall is an all time low...that is what I yelled at him about yesterday...I am not going to mention anything in the papers. I will get to upset and then he wins. I am going to let my L take care of everything...the nerve of him to actually be on vacation! (LOL) I did not sleep at all last night so my WONDERFUL parents took my daughters and kept them overnight for me...I just need quiet. Talk to you all tomorrow...I could not get through this w/o your support!