Thanks, amd, for responding. I really think it's all about H! I hadn't really thought that he was still in MLC. but he must be. Even if BIL talks to her (or I was actually thinking of talking to her tonight) he would probably find someone else to spend time with. I believe I need to give him more space again. He made the one decision to not choose ow, but now he needs to decide if he wants to be married. I have to figure out a way to explain that to him without ruining what we have. I know I don't want to be married to someone who puts his friends before me!
