Mof2G: First off, I am sorry that you are here. We know how you are feeling, try to take a few minutes today to do something for yourself. Crying is okay because we are human and darn it this stuff hurts but don't allow yourself to be there too long. It will take away your focus and right now, you need to get focused on what your next move is going to be. You see, my C once said to me"He is not the responsible or rational one so he does not get to make the decisions."
Your H is not the H that you know, he is not responsible or rational, you do what you need to do in order to protect yourself and your precious children.
