Being yourself is relative to WHO YOU WANT TO BE....you can be yourself with positive attributes that put forward or with negative ones...does that make sense...I made a lot of changes but I am still ME...I did not make changes that I didn't want for myself...
Glad you didn't mean to tell that guy anything...I misunderstood on that one, sorry...but just let things occur as they should...don't try and force things with this guy...keep it all natural as it would normally be...
What I meant by "his" properties was speaking in terms of if they were divided...I do understand your feelings but again that is jealousy and it isn't good...my H bought a brand new BMW after he left...we had never had a new car...I wanted him to sell it back at a loss because I knew it was NOT for me but for HER or to impress other women...it was my jealousy...and I didn't want to have other women riding around in his new car when he didn't do that or me...I know this doesn't sound rational now but at the time I totally felt justified...so I understand your feelings on the properties...I just don't think it is fair...my opinion from a more sane place in my life now...
Set whatever goals you need...and if you ever feel the impulse that you are "done"....and I did this on several occasions, take a week or two weeks before acting...just to make sure....because so many times I acted on my impulse and it wasn't good...i was confused and emotional....or just not really thinking past my nose....so set your goals...but never act out of impulse...vent here, journal here...someone will help you
Ok...my day is passing and I have so much to do...trying not to do my "usual" wig out and start being a bitch to everyone as I am stressing to get ready..too many vacations started out with me on a rampage because things weren't done like I WANTED!...so I just need to breath and focus today...once I get on the plane in the morning I will be OK....
Tam...take care of YOU and I am so glad you are close to your family and are going out more...I pulled away from mine because I didn't want to talk and I couldn't hold it in...I am sorry I did this now....we are still close but not like it was...oh well...live and learn
Aloha all....I will probably check back in before bed tonight...but if not....have a great week while I am in Hawaii having the dream vacation I have always wanted!
