I am so pleased for you HD. You made her face the major issues head on. As Cobra has said you've been to the abyss before and are much more shy of it than she is and it has weakened you. I feel the same way myself. When I met H I was just out of a long-term R. It puts the more naive partner in a much stronger position.
She has said yes to sex just not scheduled sex. Keep calling her out on that one, there is no way you can tell if she's keeping her word unless there's some kind of deadline/schedule. For example sex once a week does not have to mean sex every Saturday night, it just means one time a week anytime.
However in every other aspect of our lives, BUSY BUSY lives, we know that if we do not plan, do not have deadlines, do not have schedules then it just doesn't get done. There is no such thing as just doing something in an idle moment.
Keep it up HD you have the POWER OF THE SSM BOARD behind you
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
