Mo2G,

You have already received so much good advice but I wanted to give you support as well. We care about you!

As hard as it is, try to remove as much emotion, except for love, out of this terrible situation that you are in. Consider it part of the whole stupid MLC thing. Avoid doing anything rash or something you may regret later. After having a chance to digest everything and make a logical, fairly unemotional decision or decisions, you can then move in a direction. Just don't react. That is what our spouses are doing and they are trying to force us to react because they cannot do anything except react to situations and create DRAMA.

Let them have their drama. You can be the audience. Unfortunately, it is an interactive participation to some extent but you can decide how much.

We are with you and keep posting as you are now. Let it out here. Love yourself and your daughters.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God