My H pretty much did the same thing as yours only he did call and warn me that the papers would be served. The service of the papers was a nightmare. The server came after 10 at night, I was in bed and they pushed through a locked door to leave a note on my inside door. I called H the next day about the event which scared the daylights out of myself and my son. H was furious but didn't do a darn thing about it. I called and report the servers and got BS from the owner of the company. Then I ended up getting served at work. Our school secretary just told the server he had to wait until my group went to lunch. She then came to my room to get me and he served me in the office. I was still humiliated and hurt but in the end it was probably for the better as I had an immense amount of support from my fellow teachers and staff.
The point of all this is...that was 14 months ago and our D is still not final. H keeps refusing the jugdements given by the judges we have had in our case and I have now reached a minimum that I will accept in this matter. So it is now at a stalemate and I am not sure what happens from here as I have not contacted my attorney after the last letter he sent to me.
Your H may be on the fast track but chances are it will not be a fast process especially if he is asking for more than he is entitled to.
Good luck to you and I can only say do what you can to keep yourself calm. We are here for you.
Last edited by iluv2teach; 03/24/0701:51 PM.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
