(((((((Mom,)))))))
You have been given good advice; follow it. I sense that there is one more thing that will be important for you to hear.
It sounds like your H is moving fast, and is very "delusional" in his frame of mind.
This is all within the normal range of MLC thinking and actions.
He is being, shall we say, an extreme.
This does not in anyway reflect how this is going to turn out.
My H is kind and (so far) generous. That does not mean my efforts to bust my divorce have a higher chance of success.

He may be getting in the first punch in on the fight, don't let it land on you.
Fignt back with dignity, courage and all the DBing you can muster.

The only stedfast rule here is

PROTECT YOURSELF AND THOSE GIRLS.

With that:
Follow all the advise given.
It will not hurt your efforts to bust your divorce.

That's enough for now.
You will be fine. We are here.
Holly

Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.