I am so sorry you have had to deal with the insanity of MLCBS.
No it isn't fair and it isn't right.
There is no logic and most of the choices and decisions they make are out of pure emotion and anger.
I know you don't want to hear this BUT for your own peace of mind do NOT discuss any of the legal things with your Husband.
Allow the Lawyers to do their job.This is what they are paid for.
This is the time to really learn about detachment.
The man who is racing at 100 MPH will eventually run out of steam and unfortunately he really has no idea as to what damage he is causing.
They look for quick fixes hence the OW and a Divorce.
They do not understand that their problems come from within and even after they have tried many external factors to get rid of the pain they are in, eventually they will have to look at themselves.
For now, try to focus on the children and not on your Husband.
(((((((Faith))))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
