It's true, he was out with her on Thursday. Yesterday I talked to the people H said he was out with. I flat out asked them if H was out with them and they said no. I knew it. I just don't know how to handle this. Andy suggestions?

Yesterday at work on my work phone after I had answered the female on the phone said "H is still cheating on you". I could have sworn it was OW's voice. I *69'd, but it was a private cell phone. Hers probably. I wish I could have nabbed her and I would report her on harrassment charges at work (she is at my work, to but a different division) but I have no physical proof. DArn! She must be pretty desperate and stupid to be doing this on my work phone. I found out she stayed home sick yesterday, too probably a hangover from drinking to much with my H on the previous day. Oooohhh I hate this! They have called each other 4 times before noon yesterday.

I was out with H yesterday and I am doing DBusting and have not said a thing to H. He does not know I know.

The affair seems to be picking up again. How do I handle this? Please help? \:\(

Last edited by Cissy; 03/24/07 12:37 PM.