morning all, I really don't think we will ever get back together! He has totally moved on with OW and abandoned his family. I am on the fast track to D....I think H asked for so much so he can bargain with me. His L is known to be aggressive, low class and goes for the money. Has anyone thought of my children???????????????????? I only let H have it for a bit yesterday...I did not want to say to much b/c I did not want to let on that what was in the papers bothered me!! I am hoping most of it is form letter stuff...I can't imagine H even thinking I would ever spend all the $$ or sell his stuff!!! its in the papers!!!! I am trying and have been very dignified...I have not talked about him poorly, I have not spread rumors, I have not caused any problems at all!! H is the one causing all this drama...there is no need for it and it makes me look bad!! He ruined my Christmas and now he is ruining my D5 bday party today....when will I feel better???????????????