This struck a chord with me. I remember in July last year H was being really nice to me, hugging me, enjoying my company etc. I knew if I asked him that he would still say ILYBINILWY. I spoke to my best friend and I said it seemed as if he was "evaulating" and she agreed. She agreed as well that if I asked him if his feelings had changed he may well say no, so the best answer was don't ask, so I didn't, just enjoyed the positive signs, lived in the now and hoped that a happy present would lead to a happier future. It did. Piecing is a long process too, there is no falling into each others arms and declaring undying love, it's still very much a rebuilding time. It's taken me about a year and a half to get to a position I'm happy with, I've rquired more patience than I ever thought I could have but it's been so worth it! Hang on in there, to me it really does look like you WILL get there.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
