I, too, appreciate your viewpoint, fearless. Whatever is happening, in my marriage, in my W's head, all I can say is that she's still here, is being quite civil - almost friendly - to me, and that she didn't cancel the credit card.

I'm just hoping that Nop is doing better, and that this is the last time he ever has to go through this pain.

Oh, and a horrible thing has happened. I just realized that my W and I are going to see pianist Andre Watts tomorrow night, right in the middle of the Jayhawks game. \:o

Hairdog