I'm so sorry you were served in public in front of your daughters. This just confirms how amazingly self-centered they are. I honestly don't think they "intend" to hurt us, they literally just don't think of the impact on us at all.
Anyway, I'm sorry. Like the other posters, I don't understand why he would ask for so much, unless he is just posturing.
I know it is different in every state. but in my experience, this whole D process goes much slower than you think it will. And you actually have more time to respond to things than it seems. So please take you time, try to enjoy your weekend. Early next week you'll be able to get with your L.
