My D-14 has a friend that her parents had divorced years ago only to get remarried a couple of years later. It happens. I don't know the details of what happened but even if it wasn't MLC, they parted for some reason and then decided that they needed to be together.
It was wrong what H did to you. I do agree with what the others said that it may have to go to D for him to get back to where he belongs. I believe this especially to be true to MLCers.
My prayers are with you and your children. And I pray for your H to realize the mistake he is making.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God