Yes, I for one have turned the situation around a number of times and said "what would I do if it was me" and amazingly enough, you change your thought patterns pretty quickly.
I guess I should have guessed when we first got together that he wasn't as sexual as I was, being that he asked me to marry him before we even had sex (and it was not a first marriage for either of us). I just thought he was a kind, gentle soul that was respecting me - and perhaps he was (or at least I would prefer it to be that way). He has always told me that too many people put an emphasis on sex in today's society and I have to agree with him on that one.
We are good people in a difficult spot but regardless of how things turn out, he will always be a very special person in my life, I have already told him that, and I can't even see him not being a big part of my life, whether we live together or not
So onward and upward - continuing to show my unconditional love (as difficult as it might be at times) but I will always keep that at the back of my mind. As a matter of fact, it really helped to pull me through today when I was slipping - thanks COG you are a wonderful, inspirational person
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
