hi UA, RAinbow, \:\)

yeah, that's just basically it right now. H uses the pc up to the wee hours in the morning then sleeps, wakes up by 10am then takes over the pc and the cycle begins again. i want to ask him to spend some time with us (me and the kids), like go to the mall and eat out. but how do i do that without having the impression of forcing something that he doesn't want to do. i think he doesn't to go out coz peole who knew us would see us, our children and then would talk behind our backs. i understand that, i dont blame him, i blame me . well, i leave it at that for now. though i feel sorry for the kids, not being able to do the things we used to do.

how was it for you guys? did have the same delimna?
how are you doing now on your sitch?

--r---