Cobra, I see that you want to reason with her, but they've been wrestling with these issues for YEARS. Action is called for, not more talk.
I've been thinking about this a little, and I wonder if it is really true. I am wondering if HD's reluctance to confront has allowed her deflections to stand without challenge. I also sense that he is developing a stronger resolve now, whereas before I wonder if he thought it pointless to debate her, so he didn't.
Personally I think she can be whipped in the logic arena. I don't know if HD is ready to do it, but over time, with some background work and better understanding of herself, himself, and the issues, I think the hypocrisy of her views will become apparent.
I also question whether the counselor has really addressed this too. IMO, counselors will only push to the point of losing business.
