I needed to hear that she WILL try things to make herself more willing.
She said she would.
Hairdog, do you read this as her having at least a glimmer of an idea that the issues you have with sex in your marriage are legitimate issues?
Is it possible you could sit down with her, using that statement as a starting point, and see if she'll agree that it's a legitimate issue? Even if you don't discuss what might be done about it in that same sitting?
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