You feel that it was a mistake to let your husband know you wanted to work on the M? Why is that?
Seems to me like it was a good thing.
Sometimes sex is just sex, and helpful to reconnect I am glad that it happened for you.
If you do not see this as reaching out in all that he said, and even his tentative "can I actually tell her these things..." feeling you out and then admitting the truth.
Kay you were his friend, and THAT is how you reconnect for real.
Do you really think you did wrong here?
I simply do not. I think you did great.
Cake eating is just a term.
We find out what it takes to break us in this. You have not broken.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
