A great question. I don't really know. I guess I got tired of the fight.
She probably knows this too. All she has to do is wait.
People go where they're invited; they don't bang on the door and barge their way in. At least people who supposedly love each other shouldn't have to.
Victim/martyr thinking…. She gets to barge her way around regarding terms of her own interest in the marriage but you don’t. Holding yourself of a standard of what love should be sounds a little like justification to hold to your position and avoid confrontation, ya’ think?