Happy, I don't beat myself up over the mistakes I've made. I've apologized, made amends, and moved on. I just don't expect a second chance, nor do I really deserve one. If I get one then great, if not, then I'm not going to grovel, or cry, or go down the toilet. I've GAL.
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dont forget a couple of confessions with the priest because cog deserves all of this bad treatment
To bad you don't know much about going to confession. When you confess your failings to another person before God, you let them go, and you are forgiven. You walk away with a clean slate. That does'nt mean the world has forgiven you, but you no longer have to carry that burden with you. You are free of it.
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you do not deserve this punishment from your wife and that is what it is.
I'd have to agree with you, it is punishment alright, but she's not doing it because she wants to be mean. Her love for me died along time ago, long before I had a clue. And it ain't easy to bring it back from the dead. Now I can demand it, I can explain how deserving I am of it, I can kick her ass out in the street. But then I'll have missed the miracle of a changed heart.
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i am sorry and you can tell me to go to hell if you want but your wife is a selfish bitch.
Yep, and I am a selfish bastard.
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And did i mention that i hate the smell of burning martyr.
Geez I never would have guessed that.
God Bless,
COG
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