Hairdog.

Here are the three key things to be with MrsHD. Make them your mantra. Do not waiver.

1) Nonreactive

2) Single minded

3) Immutable

Forget all the discussion. The single question right now is; "What are her intentions?" All other questions are non-sequitor.

Don't get your head filled with distraction.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.