Happy anniversary, man, and CONGRATS for strapping 'em on and bringing up the issue (or at least jumping at the opportunity to do so). That is more than I have done, and at least you two are talking about it. I too have been there with the "Hmmm, she's in a good mood, don't want to mess it up" and "Hmmm, she's in a lousy mood, now is NOT a good time" rationalization. It's hard to break the inertia, but you did it!
