I second Journey's comment on not getting suckered into a debate on communication. What a fruitless path that would be. I don't know why but I feel compelled to ask - Does she follow these communication suggestions? Does she state her issues in that format? FWIW - there is an audiobook of that program by Sounds True. You might buy it for her, put a bow on it and enthusiastically say, "I am so glad that you are interested in this topic. Here is some more information on it."
