You reacted good to H....really....now the next goal should be to just "accept" what he does and not try and figure it out...or look for a pattern...or wonder if this is the turning point...you will KNOW WHEN IT IS....just ACCEPT!!!
Remember this....the OW IS NOT THE PROBLEM!!!
Also...it didn't take much alcohol to create a difference in my H when we were going through this MLC...don't fall into it...I did and it hurt so bad when H would later say he was just having fun....one night he sang Kareoke while we were out...he stood on stage...looking and gesturing to me as he sang "I Want You to Want Me"....I was in tears....and he told me "What? It is JUST a song!"....I wanted to believe part of him meant those words...but things only got worse for the next year and half after that....so I don't think it meant anything other then he was relaxed and having fun....a little at my expense but he didn't see that...
