Here's a hoot, though: last nite when got home, realized I hadnt paid elec bill, not good....anyway, I was doing a phone payment & H walked into room....asked who I was talking to. I couldnt resist...raised my eyebrows, said "ummmm, you caught me, my boyfriend". Now get this...he actually got a teeny bit miffed, said "well that's what it looks like", then said "you also have a message on the answering machine from some guy in CA"...I told him "well there you go"...he actually left the room...ha. I havent checked the message yet, but I'm sure it's in response to a ? I left re S's insulin pump. Did tell H later what was going on, but still felt like revenge is sweet. I know, bad....