Aud, Just slipped in and understand those "trust innuendo's" creeping their many limbs at you. I think 1210 (as usual) was right on about not discussing your concerns at this moment because most likely he is feeling the same things about himself. Really nothing you could do about it anyway, it is in his hands whether capable or not. Keep your positive thoughts in his direction and only positive reactions can come! Really , with all you have done lately, who in their right mind would want to jeapordize (sp?) any of what YOU created? You have quite a comfortable NEST at home that I think he realizes and doesnt want to lose it...just BELIEVE... I hope the weekend goes rapid for you and he is back soon to soothe your concerns...peace