Well, that's kind of disappointing, isn't it? We would all love to actually hear the kiss off, wouldn't we? Since you know her, do you think the OW is the fatal attraction kind? My H actually made actually made a comment shortly after he told me about the A that eluded to the possibility of her going a bit crazy if he broke it off with her.. i.e - showing up at his work, etc. Glad your H is being honest with you, though.. That's a very good thing!