Sigh. I know--thank you both. I'll think on ways I can be trustworthy in displaying my non-judgement
H called late last night to say goodnight and was very cheerful and chatty. He's alone so far. It's the next few days that really have me worried though, when he's out of things to do until his additional equipment arrives.
I think I need to find a sitter and have a little alone time for me tonight.
