I am sorry you even have to deal with this issue, it sucks I know.
((((((HUGS)))))
During my H's MLC he missed every single one of my kid's birthdays, and I have alot of kids.
He missed Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter and every other Holiday.
He missed all of the kids school events.
He was gone when my D was in the hospital for over a week.
He was gone for over 6 months at one time and we did not see him at all.
The list goes on.
He is not eligible for the Father of the year award!!!!
The sad thing is that my kids remember all of this stuff and NOW so does he. He has so many regrets. He will never ever get back those 2 years that he lost.
The look on his face when he sees the photos is priceless, he is not in any of them.
My children know that it was me who took care of everything and was there for them when Daddy was off in lala land.
There is no need for me to tell him anything anymore, he knows.
If you think it is bad now, wait until they wake up from the crisis and see the destruction they caused. It is a mind blowing experience.
Be patient, be forgiving, he really knows not what he does.
(((((Faith))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
