Well, the guy from the shop called and said the Jeep (the new baby in the house) needed more work than we anticipated. Isn't that always the way. However, H at least has agreed that because it will be the new "toy" and cost more than originally planned, he is willing to forfeit his dream of getting his pilot's license (thank goodness because I can't stand flying) and he also said he would prefer to be on the ground (me too)
I am still on this roller coaster and trying very hard to get off. I can't seem to get past this not trusting him, thinking he is hiding stuff from me. I know he will do whatever he wants to do regardless of what I say, think etc. but at the same time, we can't build a good relationship if he is constantly hiding things from me. He says it is just "privacy" and a "matter of principle". I say it is being secretive and deceiving. I guess it is all how you look at it.
I's not much of a Dr. Phil fan but I have to use one of his lines here: "if you have nothing to hide, you hide nothing"
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
