Ben asked me to come over and give you a little help...
I haven't read your sitch fully, so I don't have the full idea as to where you are at. Reading your last couple of posts, it seems that you are a little worried about his stay over in the same state as the OW...since he has said some positive things and took you on the trip...I would not say anything.
Give him the benefit of doubt...you need to trust him...but at the same time keep your eyes open.
See how he acts when he sees you again...is it too happy? Too "staged"? Too enthusiastic?
Hold off on any R talk, yet...let me read your case before I can reply anymore.
I'll read it this weekend, when I can...then reply Monday.
You seem to have a great thought process and a positive outlook at life...pluses that work.
