I have men (usually his friends) telling me "whenever you get tired of him, let me know" and "does he know how lucky he is to have you" etc. etc.
It's amazing - perhaps we should trade spouses. My H sounds just like your wife. He makes the absolutely perfect roommate - but that is not what I would prefer right now. However, at the same time I have to think "do I really want to start all over in another R - actually no, I have committed so much time and effort to this one that the thought of having to go through it all over again, just for the romance, seems a little shallow on my part at time. He's a great guy and I love him to pieces but ... (there's always that but isn't there?)
Unfortunately, like you, I'm not a very good quitter and it seems like I will continue to hang on to what I think "could be" for the time being.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
