Hi, March is the month of all birthdays in my family which brings me to this dilemma... D1 had her bday and I invited H to party...he was coming up until 2 days before when all of a sudden he no longer felt comfortable and chose not to come. D5 bday is next week and her party is this Saturday at my parents.. Should I casually mention it to H or let it go?? He doesn't know about the party and part of me thinks if he did find out and wasn't invited he will be mad....the other part of me says if I put him in the uncomfortable position of making a decision he is going to be mad/ Advice?? I feel like all I am doing lately is walking on eggshells when I have to talk to him...I try to have the least amount of contact with him....it kills me but I am doing it!
