Thanks for the input, albeit not really very positive. I understand the risk, and the sacrifice I'm challenged with. If it were'nt for our kid's we'd be long gone, I'd be skipping through the flowers. I love her, I adore her, I think she's beautiful, but I have other opinions about her too that I don't mention much and I don't care to dwell on. I could have made a wiser choice in a mate.
I'll tell you the toughest thing is the kids, our family. We live very well together, very friendly, open, and fun. If she were an absolute ogar, I could'nt live with that. But the laundry always gets done, the house is neat and clean, the meals always ready, and we talk, ALOT. It's a great friendship, partnership, just no romance.
It's a risk/reward thing, like making a decision on what medical procedure to take to try and save your life. Do I stay in a R that is really very healthy, but without physical intimacy, or leave it for the possibilities of something better? I have no doubt it would be EASY to find a better R, but how long would that last? I don't have a very good history with R's. In fact I think I'm going to try to go gay next time if I have to go around again. Women are just too nasty and complicated. I think a nice cute guy like the singer with the girl lips might just be the ticket. We'll get him a boob job, wax all the hair off and maybe THAT'LL do it.
There's also the option of living together as friends until the kid's are grown up, and then go separate ways. That might not be the best for me, but it's definately the best for them.
Checking out and sealing the deal still seems the easy approach to me though. I'm crawling in women. They love me. I'm a good looking, fun, nice, exciting, out of the box, kind of guy. ALL the most eligible women around these parts knows my status. They're watching and waiting like a school of barracuda. I've traveled around, been on many different adventures, but there's just one thing I don't do very well, and that's QUIT!
I'll do that when I'm dead.
God Bless,
COG
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