TabD and J3Bears, Thanks for your kind words. I do hope the peace that has come over me is a good thing, and not the calm before the storm!
If you all are bored, I have asked lots of questions if you read my thread that no one has responded to or given their opinion on, so feel free.
I have had this feeling of peace before, and I don't know if it is b/c I "THINK" I know my XH so well that when his heart is at peace mine is too? Or what. I felt this way the past couple of weeks when we were spending lots of time together. So maybe it is good... maybe not... But I do like the feeling of calm and not being on edge.