Just be careful because each time I told the OW what I thought of her continuing to contact my H surprisingly enough my H always got angry with me and it turned into a fight. I alway ended up thinking the OW got her way and came between my H and I.
I have to admit telling her how I felt and what a low life she was always made me feel good afterwards, but in the long run it didnt help.
The best thing to do is to let her know she isnt getting the best of you and you could care less about her. Difficult to do I know.
One time I walked into the grocery store and saw the OW and very nicely and loudly said Hello how are you Joanne and just kept walking. She about died and was so flustered... it was great !!
